After a bad bad break up I decided to join Plenty of Fish. Since I never got to say what I really felt to my ex I wrote him a few emails. Anyway.. I start chatting with this "nice" guy from POF (he didn't have a picture posted) and suddenly in our conversations he's eluding to things I wrote in my emails to my ex.

Since only my ex and I would know what was written in those emails I assumed it was my ex. This went on for two years with me anguishing over my ex surfing the net for other women and this guy eluding to "coming back"... writing things to me no one else would know but my ex. He even knew my home address and when I was home or not!!

I met this guy on Lavalife and agreed to meet him at this swanky lounge on the waterfront.

He was loaded;I'm talking multiple millions. I guess he thought he could buy anything with money. After a few drinks he asked me flat out "for a thousand bucks, would wear a pony tail butt plug, and prance around my penthouse?"

"Ahem, ah no," I retorted... "creep!" I got up and left.

Now if he had offered me ten grand ;-)

I met the "love of my life" on Plenty of Fish. We were engaged within a month and he was deployed shortly there after. As the months passed, I learned some pretty disturbing things about this man, like: 2 ex wives, 1 ex fiance, 3 kids, over $100K in debt, and his sexual preference in bed (things gay men like).

I eventually came to find out, even though I was faithful to him while he was deployed and put my life on hold for a year, he had been cheating on me the entire time while in Afghanistan.

The moral of the story, if you come across a good looking black hawk pilot in his 30s on POF... run, run far away.