I met a guy from Adult Friend Finder and we'd been chatting for about a week. He was a little younger than I normally date so I was cautious but tried to keep an open mind.

We made a date to meet one night at a local coffee shop. He didn't like the shop but I explained that we could meet there and then go elsewhere if he liked. However, I was adamant that I was going to meet him in public for our first date. He kept asking if I'd go for a walk or sit with him in his car. I explained again that I was not going to go with him in private, that our first meeting had to be in public and only if it went well would I agree to see him in private.

He went on to ask specifically what we would do, should the date go well. I said I didn't know as I hadn't met him yet and didn't know how things would go. He asked me in many different ways, some subtle and some not so subtle, if we'd have sex. I said clearly I didn't know.

The local POFs sure have a passion for fiction. This pretty blond posted photos from Mexico and gave a long list of her expectations and what she had to offer. Well, turns out she lives in subsidized welfare housing and was the worst liar I've ever met. Of course she never went to Mexico but was taken and told me that was what she expected. Said she had been to Hawaii a few years ago at her own expense but could only afford to due so by living in a welfare complex. She's a banker by day! Douche bag by night.

I was telling a new friend of mine about my boyfriend. I told her his name and where he is from. She interrupted me and says "Yeah he drives a red Camero, and works at Microsoft?! I dated him two years ago!" I had been going out with him exclusively for four years.